The Most Popular Bar & Bat Mitzvah Venues in New Jersey
Choosing a venue for your child’s Bar/Bat Mitzvah is usually the first step in planning the big day. To help, we have compiled a comprehensive list of the most popular venues across NJ to host your upcoming Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration. From Temples, to nightclubs and country clubs, you’ll find a perfect venue to best match your ideas, vision, and budget!
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RAIN is a premier entertainment venue providing a unique "club-like" experience. The venue includes incredible state-of-the-art audio, video and lighting enhancements and can easily customize the space to meet your specific needs.
Temple Emanu-El of Closter (Closter)
180 Piermont Rd, Closter, NJ 07624
Nestled in the hills of Bergen County in beautiful Closter, New Jersey, Temple Emanu-El is a unique and breathtaking facility, exclusively catered by Northern Valley Affairs (a division of Bernstein & Friedman Catering).
Under the guidance of Les Friedman, whose family has been serving the Greater New York Metropolitan Jewish Community for over 75 years, this venue provides you with unparalleled cuisine, service and atmosphere. Les Friedman offers the personalized service that you get from a family business, and are dedicated to help you plan a celebration that reflects your tastes and preferences.
This venue’s elaborate interior design includes an immense spiral staircase and marble columns that are bound to catch your eye. The Merion has four grand ballrooms and two luxurious gardens great for outdoor photos.
Coming of age is an exciting moment for young men and ladies alike. The Merion provides unforgettable service on a night you are meant to remember forever. If you want to dance, dine, and reconnect with loved ones on your day of celebration, the Merion is the way to go.
18 Label is a full service creative production studio located in Montclair, NJ. Just 12 miles outside Manhattan, 18 Label has turned into the premiere destination for events with up to 250 guests. The venue also offers a private patio, private loading dock, and parking.
4Sixty6 Caterers (West Orange)
466 Prospect Ave, West Orange, NJ 07052
4Sixty6 Caterers is a unique, all-inclusive event venue located in West Orange, NJ. With a club-style atmosphere and a state-of-the-art lighting, sound, and video system, it is the ideal setting for your next occasion. Throughout over 15,000 square feet, you can dance around your way around the venue's upstairs into one of their seven private cabanas or one of their two dance floors.
Cedar Hill Golf and Country Club (Livingston)
100 Walnut St, Livingston, NJ 07039
Cedar Hill Country Club specializes in Bar/Bat Mitzvahs and is the perfect venue for any type of event. From their beautiful scenery and exceptional service, to their delicious food and attention to detail, the venue can provide all of your banquet and catering needs. Cedar Hill is a member owned country club, but membership is not required to host an event.
Crestmont Country Club (West Orange)
750 Eagle Rock Ave, West Orange, NJ 07052
With multiple indoor and outdoor options to choose from, Crestmont Country Club is the perfect setting for an event of any size and in every season. Not only are they located just off Route 280, the venue's beautiful grounds provide the perfect setting for your son or daughter's Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Crestmont personalizes the catering options according to your requests, and their customized room setups can accommodate any configuration needed for party themes and number of guests.
Glen Ridge Country Club (Glen Ridge)
555 Ridgewood Ave, Glen Ridge, NJ 07028
Located just 20 minutes outside New York City, Glen Ridge Country Club offers an unparalleled setting for your child's Bar/Bat Mitzvah. With a naturally relaxed atmosphere that can easily be transformed for an upscale affair, Glen Ridge Country Club's private event space provides the ideal ambiance for any occasion, with no detail being overlooked. The club's understated elegance and magnificent view of the Manhattan skyline are sure to be a hit with your guests.
The Highlawn (West Orange)
1 Crest Dr, West Orange, NJ 07052
Majestically situated atop the East Rock Reservation, The Highlawn provides a stunning setting for your special day. The venue's culinary team brings decades of experience from multiple Michelin-starred restaurants in New York and abroad. They have their fingers on the pulse of all the latest trends in Bar and Bat Mitzvahs and food, and take pride in elevating the quality and prestige of every event.
The Loft (Montclair)
8 Lackawanna Plaza, Montclair, NJ 07042
The Loft is an elegant 2,500 square foot event space located in the heart of Montclair. The exposed brick, high ceilings, and dramatic foyer, makes this space the ideal location for any Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration.
The Loft at 350 (West Orange)
350 Pleasant Valley Way, West Orange, NJ 07052
Situated within The Wilshire Grand Hotel and down the road from picturesque Verona Park, The Loft at 350's unique and trendy space can easily accommodate over 200 guests. The venue provides custom-tailored plated dinner, buffet or cocktail-styled options and includes complimentary LED color-wash lighting throughout the space.
Maplewood Country Club (Maplewood)
28 Baker St, Maplewood, NJ 07040
The Maplewood Country Club is set upon an impeccably manicured golf course and provides the perfect backdrop for your upcoming Bar or Bat Mitzvah. The professional staff will assist you every step of the way to customize your affair to ensure your mitzvah celebration is flawless. Recognition for outstanding cuisine, superb service, attention to detail, and warm yet elegant ambience maintains its long standing reputation as one of the premier country clubs in New Jersey.
Racquets Club of Short Hills (Short Hills)
162 Hobart Ave, Short Hills, NJ 07078
Established in 1929, the Racquets Club is a private, family-oriented club located in the heart of Old Short Hills. The clubhouse offers formal elegance in a relaxed atmosphere and is a perfect option for any Bar/Bat Mitzvah celebration.
Richfield Regency (Verona)
420 Bloomfield Ave, Verona, NJ 07044
The Richfield Regency has cultivated a reputation for unmatched excellence in every aspect of Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah catering in the metropolitan area. This is wrapped in a splendidly designed, elegant package neatly and conveniently nestled in the soft, rolling hills of Western Essex County. They ensure that all of the food served on your child’s big day will not only be delicious, but will also contribute towards making this occasion one to remember.
Short Hills Hilton (Short Hills)
41 John F Kennedy Pkwy, Short Hills, NJ 07078
The Short Hills Hilton offers a space for every moment, with 13 meeting suites, a 300-seat Grand Ballroom with 18 foot high ceilings and crystal chandeliers, and our open-air rooftop. Their certified event planners and catering staff will coordinate every detail with you to ensure them most remarkable Bar or Bat Mitzvah.
MERCER COUNTY
The Boathouse at Mercer Lake (West Windsor)
334 S Post Rd, West Windsor Township, NJ 08550
The Boathouse at Mercer Lake is a lakefront event space that boasts soaring ceilings, mimicking the curved hull of a sailboat, floor to ceiling windows, allowing for plenty of natural light and a prominent terrace overlooking the lake. Design elements include, modern light fixtures, artistic tile, exposed timber columns and original beams. The exterior of the building is tastefully adorned in stone and features a gazebo along with covered areas creating a perfect backdrop for a Bar or Bat Mitzvah religious service or cocktail hour.
Cobblestone Creek Country Club (Lawrenceville)
2170 Lawrenceville Rd, Lawrence Township, NJ 08648
Cobblestone Creek has served as a unique and memorable venue for Bar and Bat Mitzvahs for more than 80 years. Surrounded by scenic views of their gorgeous golf course, the ballroom will be exquisitely vibrant to ensure a lasting remembrance of your special day. Their professional staff, diverse cuisine, and elegant facilities will be sure to make your experience special. Membership is not required to host an event.
Princeton Marriott at Forrestal (Princeton)
100 College Rd E, Princeton, NJ 08540
Nestled on 25 wooded acres and conveniently located near downtown, Princeton Marriott at Forrestal is an upscale hotel in Princeton, NJ, with resort-style accommodations and 35,000 square feet of total event space. Your family and friends will be in awe of their expansive Alexander ballroom that seats up to 550 guests.
Exclusively catered by Classical Caterers (a division of Bernstein & Friedman Catering), B'nai Tikvah is the perfect venue to host your son or daughter's upcoming Bar/Bat Mitzvah. They incorporate gourmet menus, trendy atmosphere and unparalleled service to wow your most discerning guests. Their ballroom is designed with crystal chandeliers, hi-tech lighting and video screens for that club like atmosphere to create a party that is both sophisticated and chic. Classical Caterers will help you coordinate all of the details to have the most successful affair.
Forsgate Country Club (Jamesburg)
375 Forsgate Dr, Monroe Township, NJ 08831
For over 80 years, Forsgate Country Club has had the honor of helping families celebrate their special day in great style. The historical clubhouse offers six spacious rooms, with the largest having capacity for up to 400 guests. The venue also has an our outdoor terrace that overlooks the renowned Banks Course’s dramatic greens. Their picturesque setting provides countless and distinctive photo opportunities. Forsgate prides itself in the customization of special events and their accommodating staff is known for its detailed planning and commitment to flawless execution. Membership is not required to host an event.
Grand Marquis (Old Bridge)
1550 US-9, Old Bridge, NJ 08857
A Bat or Bar Mitzvah is a very special time and a defining moment in a child’s life. The Grand Marquis’ Staff is knowledgeable in the religious and cultural significance of this event and will provide you with everything needed to celebrate this memorable occasion. The venue's experienced planners will help create a memorable celebration for guests of all ages and their award winning chefs will provide you with gourmet custom catering, including Kosher style catering options.
The Heldrich Hotel (New Brunswick)
10 Livingston Ave, New Brunswick, NJ 08901
The Heldrich Hotel is located in a convenient location in downtown New Brunswick, just across the street from the New Brunswick Performing Arts Center & The State Theatre. Their authentic and intimate service, artistic flair and vibrant location make them the perfect choice for a memorable Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration. Their ballroom can seat 400 guests and their outstanding, professional staff will gladly work with you to customize your perfect event, including impeccable service, décor, special themes and delectable menus to fit budgets of all sizes.
Perlé (New Brunswick)
13 Paterson St, New Brunswick, NJ 08901
Perlé’s art-inspired design features everything from crystal chandeliers to LED Walls. Perlé boasts impeccable service and in house catering. The space offers ambiance and luxury in all directions as well as state of the art sound and lighting. Perlé is compromised of 3 rooms and can be completely customized to meet the client’s needs. The venue hosts both large and intimate affairs.
618 is an award-winning restaurant located in Freehold, NJ with a Sonoma Valley rustic feel. Their Banquet Room, located on the second floor, is a perfect private space with beautiful fireplaces, customizable accent lighting and string lighting hung throughout. It includes a private entrance, large bar, DJ booth, dance floor, private restrooms, a large media screen, and seats up to 175 guests.
American Hotel (Freehold)
18 E Main St, Freehold, NJ 07728
The American Hotel has three unique banquet rooms to accommodate your Bar/Bat Mitzvah needs large or small. You and your guests will certainly enjoy the full charm and intimacy of this renovated New York style boutique hotel. Their gorgeous banquet rooms, lobby lounge, restaurant and 20 room boutique style hotel all contribute to make your event at the American Hotel so special.
Aurum Events (Freehold)
17 South St, Freehold, NJ 07728
Aurum Events and Catering is a full service venue that gives you a NYC feel in a downtown setting. The original building is almost 150 years old and offers a modern retro take with white, black, and grey tones. The main level offers a trendy vibe with a blend of exposed brick, LED lit walls, and recycled wood shelving (perfect for an intimate event or cocktail hour). Their upstairs ballroom mimics a trendy NYC loft and includes a state of the art lighting and sound system. The venue also has two outdoor spaces, a patio for the cocktail hour, and a 400 square foot deck off of the ballroom.
Battleground Country Club (Manalapan)
1 Covenhoven Rd, Manalapan Township, NJ 07726
With an almost 360-degree breathtaking view of their 220-acre golf course, Battleground is a picture-perfect setting for your upcoming Bar/Bat mitzvah. The venue can accommodate between 50-500 guests and provides a variety of menu options that are completely customizable to suit your needs. The ballroom includes video screens and unique lighting options. Membership is not required to host an event.
Eagle Oaks Country Club (Farmingdale)
20 Shore Oaks Dr, Farmingdale, NJ 07727
Impressive, lavish yet relaxing and inviting, Eagle Oaks is elegant space that can accommodate up to 600 guests with a variety of catering packages to choose from. Their professional staff will provide you with the peace of mind and assurance that your event will exceed your expectations and ensure every detail is fulfilled. Their reputation for execution along with unparalleled service makes them a perfect choice for your upcoming mitzvah celebration!
The Gramercy at Lakeside Manor (Hazlet)
410 NJ-36, Hazlet, NJ 07730
The Gramercy at Lakeside Manor is a stunning, boutique venue that has been creating unforgettable events for over two decades. Their spacious ballroom can accommodate up to 300 guests in its elegant setting while featuring an exquisite draped ceiling with chandeliers and a sweeping staircase perfect for your child's grand entrance.
Knob Hill Golf Club (Manalapan)
1 Shinnecock Dr, Manalapan Township, NJ 07726
Knob Hill Golf Club is the perfect setting for your upcoming Mitzvah. You and your guests will appreciate the hospitality Knob Hill Golf Club provides in a relaxed comfortable atmosphere. The venue's ballroom can easily accommodate parties of 30-175 people and be customized to suit your exact needs, palate, and budget.
Marlboro Jewish Center (Marlboro)
103 School Rd W, Marlboro, NJ 07746
Exclusively catered by IZ Events, Marlboro Jewish Center is located in the heart of beautiful Monmouth County, NJ and offers a picturesque suburban feel just an hour outside NYC and Philadelphia. The stunning synagogue has a warm feeling with large stained glass windows and a rich history of throwing the best parties in central NJ. Their spacious ballroom can seat 325 guests including a large dance floor. There is a separate cocktail room that is also ideal for smaller events. The venue can effortlessly accommodate your vision from being a high-tech club atmosphere to a more traditional space.
Wave Resort (Long Branch)
110 Ocean Ave N, Long Branch, NJ 07740
Wave Resort is surrounded with stunning views of the Atlantic Ocean, right in the heart of Pier Village on the boardwalk. The venue's interior spaces are fully customizable, equipped with high-speed Wi-Fi, built-in speakers, and plenty of natural light. One of the spaces, the High Crest, also features over 7,000 square feet of indoor/outdoor space to inspire a Bar/Bat Mitzvah to remember.
Palms Plaza (Matawan)
343 NJ-34, Matawan, NJ 07747
Palms Plaza is an urban chic venue in Matawan, NJ with a contemporary style and a state-of-the-art light and sound system that specializes in trendy Bar/Bat Mitzvahs. Palms Plaza has a stellar reputation in the catering world, originating with Palms Shore Club in Brooklyn, providing outstanding food and impeccable service for over 50 years. The venue offers two beautiful rooms to match your vision from nightclub inspired to sophisticated elegance. The venue also includes an awesome game room for cocktail hour!
Radisson Hotel Freehold (Freehold)
50 Gibson Pl, Freehold, NJ 07728
Radisson Hotel Freehold has a variety of venues to meet your needs. Celebrate your Mitzvah in style in the venue's Crystal Ballroom, or reserve the Emerald Ballroom or the Atrium if you have a smaller guest list. The venue's three private salons are ideal for intimate social gatherings. No matter which space you choose, you’ll benefit from amenities such as free Wi-Fi and on-site catering services.
South Gate Manor (Freehold)
260 South St, Freehold, NJ 07728
Redefining the art of special events, the family-owned South Gate Manor is known for its careful attention to the most important details, by featuring one event at a time. Using the finest ingredients of the highest quality, the venue offers innovative delicious cuisine, setting them above and apart from the traditional catering fare.
Exacting attention to detail, legendary service and exquisite cuisine are hallmarks of Brooklake, making it one of the top event venues for Bar and Bat Mitzvahs in NJ. Their elegant and spacious ballroom can be completely transformed to create your dream celebration. It features floor-to-ceiling windows that ensure a stunning view from any corner of the room. They also have a separate room for young adult cocktails and activities. Membership is not required to host an event.
The Hanover Manor (East Hanover)
16 Eagle Rock Ave, East Hanover, NJ 07936
The Hanover Manor has been providing fine catering since 1977 and offers distinguished catering, ample banquet space and gorgeous grounds. They always help create a family-friendly atmosphere that is relaxed and memorable and will thoughtfully design a menu personalized for all to enjoy.
Hyatt Regency Morristown (Morristown)
3 Speedwell Ave, Morristown, NJ 07960
The Hyatt Regency Morristown offers four ballrooms (seating up to 300 guests) outfitted with cutting-edge technology and unique architectural details for a refined ambiance. Allow their professional event planners to accommodate all of your needs, leaving lasting memories for you and your guests.
The Madison Hotel (Morristown)
1 Convent Rd, Morristown, NJ 07960
With over 85 years of experience, The Madison Hotel sets the standard for flawless and unforgettable events. From their magnificent 4,000 square feet Glynallyn ballroom to their stunning Conservatory, The Madison Hotel offers unmatched flexibility and versatility perfect for every Bar/Bar Mitzvah.
The Meadow Wood (Randolph)
461 NJ-10, Randolph, NJ 07869
Family-owned and operated, The Meadow Wood offers graceful décor, magnificent architecture, unsurpassed personal service and state-of-the-art technology that allows your dream Mitzvah to turn into a reality. They offer two beautiful ballrooms and various cocktail room options to accommodate events of every size.
Primavera Regency (Stirling)
1080 Valley Rd, Stirling, NJ 07980
The Primavera Regency offers unlimited possibilities for designing a uniquely personalized and unforgettable experience. Unlike other venues, they only hosts one event at a time. They can accommodate up to 250 guests within their distinctive cream and gold ballroom and include use of their comprehensive audio-visual equipment. They also pride themselves on custom menu development for every event.
Preakness Hills Country Club is a member owned facility dating back to 1926, offering a beautiful setting with picturesque views. From a small and intimate mitzvahs to a grand affair, each member-sponsored event will experience world-class cuisine and exemplary service from their dedicated staff of event experts. The venue's newly renovated clubhouse includes an elegant ballroom that accommodates up to 320 guests as well as several other exquisitely appointed rooms for more intimate gatherings. Additionally, their highly talented culinary team will satisfy on all levels by expertly preparing the latest culinary trends.
SOMERSET COUNTY
Basking Ridge Country Club (Basking Ridge)
85 Madisonville Rd, Basking Ridge, NJ 07920
Located in the hills of Basking Ridge, NJ, Basking Ridge Country Club is a perfect destination for your upcoming Mitzvah celebrations! They are open to the community and offer the perfect blend of suburban tranquility and metropolitan sophistication. Their newly renovated venue is contemporary and elegant, featuring views of the sprawling Somerset Hills, raised hearth fireplaces, crystal chandeliers and wood flooring. Membership is not required to host an event.
Cherry Valley Country Club (Skillman)
125 Country Club Dr, Skillman, NJ 08558
Cherry Valley Country Club features two clubhouses that are warm and inviting with gorgeous golf course views and a variety of event space options including a large contemporary bar, a patio with two large fire pits and a window-lined ballroom that can accommodate up to 125 guests with a large dance floor. Their artistic and masterful culinary team offers an array of delectable cuisines to customize your menu. Membership is not required to host an event.
Royce Brook Golf Club (Hillsborough)
201 Hamilton Rd, Hillsborough Township, NJ 08844
Royce Brook offers the perfect venue for any Bar or Bat mitzvah celebration. Their Highlander Pavilion (seating up to 300 people) offers an air of refreshing elegance in its garden-like setting while providing the highest standard of food and beverages, quality and service at a very affordable price. Royce Brook schedules only one event at a time, allowing their staff to focus all of its attention on your celebration. Membership is not required to host an event.
The Tavern at Ash Brook Golf Course accommodates up to 125 seated and 250 guests cocktail style inside featuring floor-to-ceiling windows, stone columns, and full bar. The room opens to a spectacular patio featuring scenic golf course views and lounge seating. Add in exceptional staff and a mouthwatering menu and you can be sure your child's Bar/Bat Mitzvah will be one your guests won't soon forget. Membership is not required to host an event.
The Gran Centurions (Clark)
440 Madison Hill Rd, Clark, NJ 07066
The Gran Centurions offers beautiful grounds include a charming gazebo and patio area, and three spacious ballrooms that can host between 50 to 350 guests. Their attention to detail and fine cuisine will leave your guests speechless. The venue offers everything from delicious buffets to outstanding sit down dinners making The Gran Centurions one of the most prominent banquet halls in Union County, NJ.
Shackamaxon Country Club (Scotch Plains)
100 Tillinghast Turn, Scotch Plains, NJ 07076
Shackamaxon Country Club offers a gorgeous setting for any mitzvah celebration. Their modular ballroom can accommodates up to 300 guests while their culinary team will customize a menu guaranteed to delight every guest. Membership is not required to host an event.
Temple Beth Ahm Yisrael (Springfield)
60 Temple Dr, Springfield, NJ 07081
Exquisite Affairs Caterers is the exclusive caterer at Temple Beth Ahm Yisrael and has have created flawless kosher and glatt kosher celebrations for families for more than 60 years. They offer extensive menu options designed to create a unique celebration that will satisfy guests of all ages.
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